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Bases Loaded Before He Even Threw a Pitch: A Proposal Story

He hid flowers in the trunk. She smelled them the moment she got in.

· 5 min · Togetter

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A man secretly hid a bouquet of flowers in his car trunk before picking up the woman he was planning to propose to. He hadn't said a word — the plan was to surprise her later. Then she got in the car, took one breath, and said: "Wait, does this car smell different today?"

He described the moment using a baseball metaphor: suddenly the bases were loaded and he hadn't thrown a single pitch. He managed to save the game, got engaged, and posted about it online. The thread quickly turned into a collection of similar near-miss proposal stories — other men who had nearly blown their own surprises, and the improbable ways they survived.

In Japan, hiding a bouquet for a proposal is a familiar romantic gesture. What this thread reveals is that flowers, however well-intentioned, have a scent — and so does a plan that's about to go sideways.

Comments

Back when I was planning to propose, I secretly hid a bouquet in my car trunk and went to pick up my future wife. The moment she got in, she said “hm, does this car smell different today?” — and just like that, I was in a bases-loaded jam before I’d even thrown a pitch. (In Japanese baseball, a “bases-loaded pinch” describes a high-pressure situation where any mistake ends the inning.)
My husband, who is absolutely terrible at surprises, announced “I have an urgent errand — gotta go buy flowers!” and headed straight to the flower shop.
Did you manage to put out the fire? (nervous)
Runners on base at every turn, but somehow I managed to get through it.
Torahō! (A victory cheer for the Hanshin Tigers, an Osaka-based professional baseball team — “tora” means tiger.) Congratulations, and wishing you both a lifetime of happiness! 💐
The fact that it was immediately bases loaded before he even threw a pitch is hilarious 😁 Glad you pulled through ☺️
This is just… wow. (vocabulary depleted) I’m tearing up
Too wholesome of a Hanshin fan, I’m done.
A true theatrical closer.
Quite dramatic, lol. The inexperience really shows, heh…
My partner could totally do this lol. Need to practice covert ops. Then again, he’s bad at keeping secrets, so it’s probably hopeless lol
I LOVE these almost-busted, nearly-there, somehow-still-alive romance stories ☺️☺️☺️ pure joy. Random aside: whenever I hear about a boyfriend giving his girlfriend flowers, I always find myself wondering — does he actually know whether she has a vase at home? Does he not? I just sit there smiling about it ←←←
Flowers really do smell more than you’d expect, huh…
Women’s sense of smell is just on another level… what even is that
A friend who did the same thing told me he got suspected of cheating.
Come to think of it… that might be exactly what she meant.
You put a woman in the car…?
Wait — that’s what she was saying…?!
This reminds me of the bouquet of roses I hid in my trunk for my wife’s proposal 💐 By the time I gave it to her, it was completely wilted — still makes me laugh 🤣 She was happy anyway, so I call it a win
I was so scared of this exact situation that I hid the flowers in a sedan I almost never rent. Turns out my wife had already figured it out anyway — probably because the car type was unusual.
This reminds me of when I completely forgot my future wife’s birthday early in our relationship and panicked on the day. Aoyama Flower Market (a popular flower shop chain with locations inside train stations across Japan) exists for people like me. Needless to say, she figured out I’d forgotten.
I never wear cologne, but I put a little on just for the proposal — and she immediately goes “hm, this car smells weird, you didn’t put another woman in here, did you?” Almost became a whole situation. Turns out she wasn’t actually suspicious at all. She’d been expecting a proposal for a while and was just messing with me. The joke was on the guy who thought he was unlovable.
Mine went the other way — I rushed through the hot spring bath to get back to the room and set up a proposal stuffed animal by the window. My wife came back, went “wow, the night view is gorgeous!”, and walked right toward it. I thought the surprise was blown… but she was so distracted by the view that she completely missed the stuffed animal. Surprise: successful.
Before I started dating my current boyfriend, he asked if we could meet on my birthday. I had plans with friends first, so I said sure, after that. On the day, my friends’ gift to me was pretty big, so I asked if I could put it in his trunk — opened it, and there was a birthday present he’d hidden for me. Felt so guilty… I did my best to pretend I hadn’t seen it.
Looking at all these quote replies — turns out a surprisingly high number of guys prepare flower bouquets when they propose. That’s kind of beautiful.

My take

Can't let them read your pitch — the moment they clock the type and location, it's all over.

Comments loosely translated for tone.

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